A Knights Tale Of Life And Love

In response to:Alright, I'm Getting It....

Sat, 22 Nov 2008 00:06:23 +0100

It's neither women nor men, the young nor the... should I say, 'more experienced'? ... who hold the cards.
It's the ones who believe in themselves and have enough confidence to get out there.
Take it from one who knows.

In response to:Welll... Last Night Didn't Turn Out As I Expected...

Mon, 27 Oct 2008 01:22:25 +0100

stop trying so hard!!!!
Alternatively, I do know a couple of websites!!!!!

In response to:Dilemmas... Or Easy Choices?

Sat, 25 Oct 2008 12:45:40 +0200

I have to admit, it does sometimes feel like chasing the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. When you get there, it's just a mole hill.

But i'm sure i'll find the pot of gold some day. :D

In response to:Lookig Forward...

Sat, 25 Oct 2008 12:43:52 +0200

As i said, i'm single and free. No one depends on me and i don't depend on anyone.

Open season leaves it up to the girls, hunt me down if they will. So no, jealousy isn't a factor. It's just for fun. If something happens later on down the line, then that's fine. But for tonight. I'm myself.

In response to:Dilemmas... Or Easy Choices?

Sat, 25 Oct 2008 12:42:33 +0200

There are girls who feel just like you. One day it'll feel right to chase, knowing that at the end of the chase there is a real fox, not the fluffy toy.

In response to:Lookig Forward...

Sat, 25 Oct 2008 12:39:35 +0200

You did make me laugh: 'beautiful woman, somewhere...there's a bloke who's sick of shagging her.' What a great philosophy. I always thought that good looking men were way beyond my reach because they'd already have been taken. More to the point, though... even if the lboke is sick of shagging her, she will find plenty of men willing to replace him. I can't deal with jealousy. Open season, on the other hand.. does not require enough involvement to become jealous, does it?

In response to:Dilemmas... Or Easy Choices?

Sat, 25 Oct 2008 10:53:33 +0200

Very unlucky. But things will change. I have good feelings. Alot of good feelings. I'm stronger, smarter, more capeable. I'm me again.

In response to:Dilemmas... Or Easy Choices?

Sat, 25 Oct 2008 09:45:44 +0200

It's one of those things that people take you at your own estimation, so it is good to decide you are worth chasing. I think you might also have been unconsciously attracted to girls who were screwed up (out of that urge to save them) and more likely to hurt you because of that. As someone who has made a life out of trying to save people, I've found that the sad thing is you always have to not give as much as you would like - of yourself, of your past, of your love - because the type of person you want can't cope with that and needs the thrill of the 'chase' constantly. Good Luck - I think you've been very unlucky so far!

In response to:Dilemmas... Or Easy Choices?

Fri, 24 Oct 2008 21:07:03 +0200

Thanks, i think i'm seeing that more than ever. I need all the advice i can get!

And thanks about the header thing, you mean the picture? Or The whole thing?

In response to:Dilemmas... Or Easy Choices?

Fri, 24 Oct 2008 17:52:16 +0200

ps like the blog header, and leave the loony girl be, if she can treat you like that you're better off without.

:)

In response to:Dilemmas... Or Easy Choices?

Fri, 24 Oct 2008 17:49:34 +0200

they say to us girlies that desperation shines through and scares people, maybe you are right and you do need to let them do all the running.

these things happen when they are meant to and your turn will come.

keep smiling

In response to:Nothing I Hate More Than A Bully...

Fri, 24 Oct 2008 08:45:05 +0200

I think vengeance is damaging to the one who seeks it just as much as the person on the receiving end. I can't give you any proof of that other than I feel better for not bothering with it any more. I think even though it feels good at the time, it long-term somehow keeps the bond between you in place. Don't get me wrong - I never forget the betrayal, and I don't trust the person as I used to (unless they regain my trust by supreme acts of loyalty), but I put the memory to the back of my mind and treat them ok, because life really is too short. Mostly the person then fades out of my life - they're not important any more and I haven't wasted energy on them.

Some people thrive on attention - even negative attention. How very annoying for them when they don't get it!

In response to:Latest Events In My Love Life...

Thu, 23 Oct 2008 19:00:26 +0200

i know this is probably a moot point now, but to me I can't see why you would 'need space' but be happy to kiss and cuddle still. It sounds like she wanted the best of both worlds.

I've been with my OH for 10 years now and he has helped me sort out countless issues, earlydays when i thought i wanted a break it was coz i was thinking about whether i wanted to only be with one man forever or not.

In a good relationship there is give & take and each partner should be willing to do as much for you as you do for them. Maybe you are too nice and so you get walked over?

I don't have a solution I'm afraid, but keep your chin up and keep smiling :) it'll happen when you least expect it.

In response to:New Dawn, New Day...

Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:51:10 +0200

you certainly will, have a good time til then though!

x

In response to:How Can Someone Make Me Feel So Worthless?

Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:49:41 +0200

i know a load of girls who'd be up for a caring fellow like how you sound. do not despair, this girl may not have been true but you'll find someone who treats you right and makes you feel properly whole.

In response to:How Can Someone Make Me Feel So Worthless?

Wed, 22 Oct 2008 10:38:35 +0200

I'm starting to believe that now. Takes some time, but i'm a fast healer. Better to gt up and move on. Thanks Honeydews!

In response to:Weird Day...

Wed, 22 Oct 2008 10:36:34 +0200

Well it's good to know there is still use out there for someone like me :D

In response to:How Can Someone Make Me Feel So Worthless?

Wed, 22 Oct 2008 10:12:25 +0200

Do not worry... everyone goes throw it ... I can understand how you feel when someone says that ur relationship was a mistake...
Believe me i was told the same n it took me nearly 4 years to getoverr it ...
May be i still carry a chip on my shoulder for it and it is never easy to trust anyone again ...
But still we cannot generalise so still am tryin to trust people more ...

so do not loose faith. there are still people who are honest, loving and caring...

Honeydews

In response to:Weird Day...

Wed, 22 Oct 2008 10:02:56 +0200

Hey who said that they do not need a knight in shining Armour ??

I have been desperately searching for one :D

In response to:Weird Day...

Tue, 21 Oct 2008 21:44:01 +0200

I'll try. Struggling with your own self morals is a tough one though.

I'll keep fighting for what i believe in... i think. Indecisivness seems to happen when i have no goal.

In response to:Weird Day...

Tue, 21 Oct 2008 21:12:34 +0200

Never give up! Be THE Hero!:) x

In response to:How Can Someone Make Me Feel So Worthless?

Tue, 21 Oct 2008 00:34:38 +0200

I hope so, but how screwed up is that situation?!

In response to:How Can Someone Make Me Feel So Worthless?

Mon, 20 Oct 2008 23:56:57 +0200

you will find the one..one day...you will...take care and have some faith in the female race! x

In response to:Latest Events In My Love Life...

Sun, 20 Jul 2008 21:08:45 +0200

You know...I wonder why she can't include you? After a week try again...but be silent, completely for the whole week and that will take strength.

Remain silent and see what happens...occupy yourself in other things...see what happens. My heart goes out to you. You sound so anxious and so genuine. You are young with still a whole life and a bit ahead of you.
Be patient.
Pip x

In response to:My relationship...

Sun, 20 Jul 2008 21:05:29 +0200

Just be patient and wait and then ask again. Be prepared as much as you can for anything she may say or feel.

In response to:My relationship...

Sun, 20 Jul 2008 19:37:09 +0200

qowomen are the world's greatest mystery. for aeons , man has tried to figure them out.that is why humanity lives today. the final frontier/puzzle.never try to understand the. easier to figure out the workings of a fighter aircraft/missile.rubik's cube is easy.she still loves you ,i think. best of luck